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Yep, November is National Home Care and Hospice Month. And so the topics we are going to cover today, they're timely. It's a month to remember, a month to remember to honor the millions of professionals who provide health and supportive care to patients and their families in their homes. You know, it also recognizes the crucial role of unpaid family caregivers, millions of us throughout the country. And during the National Home Care and Hospice Month, the focus is on raising awareness for these services, and they help individuals manage chronic conditions, recover from surgery, receive end-of-life care, and more all from the comfort of their own residents. That's right. And we do know, we mentioned this a couple of weeks ago with Gigi was on, that AARP, they have data that shows that 77% of adults that are 50 and older want to remain in their homes for the long term. And we know what the long term means. It means until the end of life. So this number, by the way, 77% has been the same for over a decade. But of course, The numbers are growing because the aging population is growing. And, you know, so the need for services like this is also much needed. And let's see, the ones that are offered by our guest today are what we're talking about. So Jessica Catlin is the founder of cultivated comfort. And she has said that it's her honor to help you reimagine or us reimagine end of life. through preparation, education, and care. She's here today to share her experience and knowledge with us, so I'm excited to have her back on again. And you weren't here last time, Mike. No, no. So, Jessica, thanks for joining us. I'm really excited to hear what you have to say. You know, I deal with a lot of people in end-of-life situations. And I know that preparation is key to maximizing the experience at that time. And that's what you do. And as you help people with that, so before we get into some of the specifics about, you know, navigating grief during the holidays and such, Tell us a little about what you do as a death dola. How is it that you're helping families? Well, this journey began very personally for me. I experienced many losses at a young age, and I was deeply influenced by my grandmother. She had a real love for genealogy and family history. She'd pack a picnic basket and put my sister and I in the back of her van, and we'd spend the afternoon visiting our family's resting places. We'd eat, look at pictures, and talk about...

who they were. It taught me that death didn't have to be hidden or feared. It could be woven into how we love and remember. And as I grew older, I saw how silence and death can leave families unprepared and disconnected. And that contrast between my grandmother's openness and the avoidance I saw elsewhere really shaped me. I realized that talking about death isn't morbid. It's actually one of the most life-affirming things we can do when we can understand our choices, our values, and how we want to be cared for. We can live with more clarity and peace, and that's what I help families with. Excellent, excellent. And it's just so important because it's difficult, you know, as Joanna mentioned, sometimes we don't want to think about these things. But even when we do think about them, what exactly should we be thinking about in terms of, you know, what is, what do we want it to look like? What do we want it to feel like? And those are difficult conversations to even begin. Right. And I think everyone's on their own. It's an exploration, if you will. You get to a certain point in your life and you start thinking about these things. But I want to say, Jessica, thank you for mentioning your family, being comfortable, talking about death and going to the cemetery. I used to take my grandkids through there on the way home, and we look at the statues. And in fact, I posted one on Facebook today that I took there. And it's interesting because... In Victorian days, Mount Hope Cemetery was designed for families to come and have picnics on Sundays. It's a beautiful place with hills and ponds, and that is exactly what they used to do. So your family was doing the same thing, which I think is really cool. Yeah. She was a beautiful woman, and she was very in tune with. traditions yeah and then she's shining down on you right now for sharing these things it's terrific thank you and so jessica what are some of the things that that that you know if if typical is even an appropriate word but what are some of the typical things that you might do for a family who's who's looking for help in this area yeah so i can help i pride myself on meeting families really where they are So wherever they need me, right? If we're in a time of crisis, it can look one way. If we're just tiptoeing into discovering this, we can talk about how to be prepared long term. You know, that can start as like when you're a business owner and what if something happens to you? Let's navigate that. What does all that backend stuff look like? But also, what do you want your end of life to look like? Do you want to die at home? Do you... want to be in hospice. Do you want to be surrounded by your family? Is there a family maybe you don't want to see? Or maybe you only want to see them for a certain amount of time. You know, we can talk about funeral planning. We can talk about things that are important to you, right? Maybe, you know, daily bathing is important to you. Music. You want your pets. Where do you want your pets to go if, you know.

Our pets are outliving us. Grief work. A lot of different things. Yeah, and things oftentimes I think folks don't think about and maybe some contingency planning, right? We may have a vision of our ideal death experience, but sometimes it isn't going to work out that way. Yes, right. But if you share it, then you have a better chance of that happening, right? I mean, if you share it with your family, then it might happen. A better chance, I guess. Yes, yes. And, you know, it just, it really would help out also not just your personal values, but really the sandwich generation that is taking care of their aging parents, their people, and their children, and they're really burdened. by this and it doesn't need to be that way or as much as it will be if we have some better planning in place sure and one of the things that you do for families is you do connect them with resources that are out there in the community right that they may not be aware of absolutely there's a lot of resources that they can get in touch with some paid a lot free you know if they're a veteran there's benefits they're entitled to Yes, so I pride myself on having a very robust resource list. And I'm wondering, you know, we're talking about the holidays coming up and some of the triggers, and obviously the holidays are going to trigger memories and grief. Are there other triggers, Jessica, that come up often with your work? Yes, the holidays definitely stir up a lot, you know, whether it's music, smells, or family traditions, but triggers can show up anytime. It might be an anniversary, a song you hear on the radio, a place you used to go together, or even a simple routine like setting the table for one last person. Grace is stored in our senses and our bodies. Yeah, and in our hearts, I guess. So, folks, stay with us. Are you hesitant to bring up the D word, you know, death? Then keep listening for ways to approach this awkward topic when end-of-life educator and doula Jessica Catlin joins us again next on C News Rock Radio. The construction will begin. The next news update. This is going to be. Is currently under construction. Probably the finest ever built. Check in for the latest. With any construction project, there are changes. They want to make sure everything's perfect. News Radio. Wham 1180. Ready for adventure? Drive the Honda 2026 H.R. VLX all-wheel drive from Ralph Honda, style, space, and just 249 a month. Adventure is calling at Ralph Honda, getting you there for three generations. 2026 H.R. VLX. All-wheel drive, 39-month-less taxes and fees do at signing for qualified buyer, see, delivery details. Hey, Franz Lonsbury here, talking with Jason, the general manager of Jamestown mattress. Jason, are Jamestown mattresses truly made to order? Yes, they are. We don't spend any money at...

Welcome back to Seniors Rock Radio, and I am pleased to continue now with Jessica Catlin. She's the founder of cultivated comfort and end-of-life care and education practice dedicated to reimagining how individuals, families, and communities approach death. Jessica. provides trauma-informed doula support, advanced care planning, grief and caregiver support, and holistic modalities such as meditation and reiki. I am glad to welcome her back. We were with her on the last segment. Jessica, let's go forward here and talk about maybe the common stages of grief. Is everyone different when it comes to grief? Yeah, that's a great question. I do think everybody is different. You know, we often hear about the five stages of grief, denial anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance, but that model was really never meant to be a checklist. Grief really isn't linear. It's more like... Coming and going and wave, sometimes you're okay. And then the memory hits and the wave comes again. Everyone's experience is unique because grief depends on your relationship, your coping style, and your support system and really even your culture. So instead of asking yourself, am I grieving the right way? Just ask, you know, just encourage people to ask what do I need right now? And there's really no right or wrong way to grieve. It makes total sense. Yeah, and that, Jessica, that last statement I think is so important because so many of us are familiar with those five stages and we think that it's a progression, right? It's supposed to start with number one and then with number five and, you know, somebody's not doing it right, you know, that sort of thing. So it's very individual and there's no right or wrong way to grieve. What are some things that come to mind, Jessica, for you, that might be helpful for people who do find themselves grieving when, you know, we're in this very celebratory time. Yeah, so, you know, it's important to remember that grief takes many forms and people are grieving a recent loss while others are experiencing what we call anticipatory grief, which is like the slow ache of knowing a loss is coming. And then there's complicated, traumatic grief when a loss feels sudden or unresolved and even disenfranchised grief when your loss isn't recognized or supported by others. And all of these can feel especially heavy. when the world seems to be celebrating. And my advice is to honor where you are. You don't have to perform joy or push yourself in traditions that don't feel right. Protect your energy, and maybe that means saying no to a certain gathering or creating new rituals that bring you comfort. And reaching out, grief can be isolating, but connection, even in small ways, helps us live. And above all, be gentle with yourself. The goal isn't to be cheerful. It's to make space for both love and loss in the same season.

Oh, yeah, important words. And, you know, we're going to talk more too after the break about how to help caregivers because that comes to mind right away. When we talk about grief, everyone thinks about the person who's sick or dying, but those caregivers are suffering big time too. So I'm so glad that we're going to talk about that. Jessica, any other words about, you know, helping folks with grief through the holidays that come to mind? Yeah, I think just really sit down with yourself. Take a minute and listen to yourself about what do you need? And there is no wrong answer, right? Maybe that's spending time alone. That's okay. Maybe it's, you know, Doing something for your community. Maybe donate some food. Go see someone else maybe that you think might not have company. Or start your own tradition. You know, I like it. There's no wrong answer. That's right. That's it. Be kind to yourself. And, you know, if someone's been caregiving for a couple of years. Their whole life is upside down. So take it easy on yourself, one step at a time, one day at a time, and you will come back and you will blossom and you will have beautiful memories and all those things that people, you know, say are going to make you feel better. So just, you know, it is a process, right? So thank you, Jessica. We're going to be back with Jessica in a minute here. But I wanted to make sure that you had her. contact information and she is with Cultivated Comfort or she's the founder of Cultivated Comfort and the number there is 506-7105 and it's Cultivated Comfort.CO, right? Not C-O but CO because there's other companies with that name in the country. But CultivatedComfort.CO is how you will reach Jessica and I think you will enjoy that very much. So thank you, Jessica. We're going to be back with you in a few minutes. And let's see here. I also, because it's Halloween weekend, I have to bring this up. Halloween is fun and scary, right? But dirty air ducts are just plain scary. When was the last time you cleaned yours? If you can't remember, chances are your family is breathing in. dust, allergens, even mold that's been hiding in your vents. Time to call indoor air professionals for a thorough duck cleaning and clean indoor air. A healthier home is a phone call away. Don't wait, protect your family's health, improve air quality, and help your system run more efficiently. So you can call Peter at indoor air professionals. You'll save $125 off your first air duct cleaning, 4278020 extension 303. Don't wait. They're booking out like three weeks. It is time. And if you call today, you could also save money on air purifiers and dehumidifiers from Healthway. Excellent stuff. We'll be right back after the break with more seniors rock radio and more for you listeners. This chain of events in any event. That is historic. Unprecedented. Important. Check in for what you need to know. The events of the day. The president in Asia. Make deals. Government shutdown. Worse each passing day. News radio. Wham 1180.

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Welcome back to Seniors Rock Radio. We're glad you're here with us today. And we're also glad that Jessica Catlin is here. She's the founder of Cultivated Comfort, where, as an end-of-life educator and practitioner, Jessica, provides support. And that's to individuals during a time of transition by providing education, information, and resources. And that's emotional and holistic. care as well as physical support. We talked earlier today about navigating grief with Jessica during the holidays especially. So let's talk now about how to support the caregivers in your life. Caregiving is an enormous gift of love, but it comes with sometimes huge challenges both physically and emotionally. Yes, you're right. Caregivers are such a vital part of this work. They're the quiet heroes holding everything together while managing jobs, raising children, and caring for their aging parents all at once. They're what we call the sandwich generation. And that kind of emotional and physical labor is profound, and it can lead to exhaustion, guilt, or even loss of identity. The holidays can make all of that feel even heavier. While others are celebrating, caregivers are often juggling appointments, medications, and fatigue. And it can feel like no one notices. One of the most meaningful gifts you can give is acknowledgement. Just saying, I see you're managing a lot, can mean so much to them. Caregivers often feel invisible, and simple recognition can bring real relief to them. There are also practical ways you can help. So instead of saying, let me know if you need anything, offer something specific. Bring dinner over on Tuesday. Sit with their loved ones so they can take a walk or even a hot shower. Encourage them to let go of the shoulds this year. They don't need to host, decorate, or even keep every traditional life. Help them simplify, skip the big meal if it's too much, or celebrate in a smaller way. And most importantly, truly listen, make space for their feelings without trying to fix them. Let them know it's okay to feel everything, joy, grief, gratitude, exhaustion, it all belongs. If they can't make it to gatherings, include them in small ways. A call, a photo, a plate of dessert dropped off at the door. Being remembered matters more than being present. And in my work, I help caregivers build small moments of rest into their routines, even five minutes to breathe, have a cup of tea, step outside. We talk about realistic self-care and not the kind that feels like another chore, but the kind that restores them to just enough to keep going. I also remind them that it's okay to ask for help and to accept it. Accepting and asking for care isn't a weakness. It's how they sustain their strength for the long road. They're walking. And another big piece is emotional permission. Caregivers often feel like they have to be strong all of the time, but grief doesn't wait for death.

You know, that's what we call the anticipatory grief, mourning the changes and losses that come as someone declines. I try to help them name that because once you name it, you can start to process it instead of carrying it silently. Encouraging caregivers to find support and connection through local caregiver groups, hospice programs, and community circles. No one should walk this alone, whether it's a friend, a pet, or a duel like me. Having someone to listen without judgment can be incredibly grounding. And most importantly, after the holidays, don't forget to check in again. When the decorations come down and the quiet sets in, that's often when loneliness grows. The simple message of... I'm thinking of you today can make all the difference to them. Offering ongoing care and attention reminds them they're not alone in this work of love. And at the end of the day, caregiving is one of the purest acts of love. But that doesn't mean doing it alone. My hope is that this season, we care for our caregivers too with the same attention. They give to the people that they love because when they're supported, everyone in that circle feels more peace. Absolutely. And it's so important to support the caregivers and to encourage them to take advantage, Jessica, of those small moments of self-care. You know, a lot of times I know people feel guilty if they want to take even the briefest moment to just sit by themselves. But the reality is, as you know, that helps you be a better caregiver. And too often, I know you've seen it, I've seen it. The research shows that oftentimes the caregiver's health will deteriorate to the point where they need a caregiver themselves and obviously not a good situation. Yeah, true. No, that's correct. And, yeah, that strong person becomes, you know, especially I think sometimes caregivers, especially if it's someone who's been in a long-term marriage, for example, they feel responsible. There's responsibility there that doesn't need to be there solely because it is a job that takes, you know, a village, as they say, right? Yes, yes. And I think finding your village. And if you don't have it, make it. You know, you can. And I can help them with that. It's there. You just have to find it. And it can be hard, but we can do it. Yeah. And asking for help. And sometimes, you know, the older generation has a hard time with it. I mean, I remember as a kid, I remember hearing in my house, if you can't do it yourself, then don't do it. You know, it was like. you were embarrassed to ask for help sometimes. So it's funny, things have changed so much for the better in that area. And, you know, mental health is acceptable and getting help is acceptable. So folks, you know, do what, you know, Jessica's saying and reach out. And, you know, when we're talking about...

just having a conversation with someone who's had a loss, I think it's important to be able to bring up that person. You know, everybody skirts around it because they don't want to make them uncomfortable, but I think that, you know, talking about memories and maybe even fun things, you know, laughter and, you know, those things are going to help someone to feel, you know, feel some joy and in memories, I guess. No, you're right. Oftentimes the silence from others is more hurtful. Yeah. People are so afraid to say the wrong thing, but honestly saying nothing is usually the wrong thing. And just you could say, gee, I don't know what to say. I see you and this is hard and I'm here for you. Great. nothing wrong with that don't be afraid to make a mistake but don't make the mistake of not saying anything and i've also heard people say don't say i know how you feel oh yes yeah you're so right not to say that is that is That is. That's a tough one. Yes, I try to help people unlearn that. You know, people mean it with good intentions usually because they want to relate and they want to hold space with them. But that can invalidate their experience. And every experience is so different and unique that you don't want to say that. Be like, if you want to, you know, offer your story, you can say, gee, I lost my father. And that was really hard. I can't imagine what you're going through. I would like to do this for you. Please let me do this. Is this okay? You know, and bring the dinner over. And don't be afraid to ask unless they specifically say, please don't ask. Then honor that. Then honor that, right? Yeah, right. Yeah. Very true. You know, yeah, talking about caregivers, I just want to make a comment. And I've seen it changing over the years for the better, but still too often the caregiving burden falls on the women in the family. And the daughter. I just want to say, or any daughter, you know, guys, we got to step up too. And too often it defaults to one of the women in the family. That's not fair. Yeah, thank you, Mike, for saying that. Terrific. And, you know, they used to call them the silent caregivers, the men who can't share some of those things that happen at 3 in the morning when they're taking care of someone at work or with other people. They feel, you know, it's not appropriate. So anyway, I would like to thank Jessica Catlin. Thank you for being here with us today for starting cultivated comfort. Enjoy the rest of your weekend. Helping families plan ahead, honor their values, and find comfort in community is a gift. Thank you, Jessica.

And you can reach Jessica at Cultivated Comfort 506-7105 or CultivatedComfort.co.co. Very good. And folks stay with us. We'll be back after the break here on Seniors Rock Radio. The button pushed to get all the news you need to keep you informed. My finger is on the button. News weather traffic at the push of a button. Rochester's news weather and traffic station. News Radio, Wham 1180. Buying a vehicle comes down to the numbers. With 11 locations across the Rochester area and thousands of cars to choose from, there's only one. Welcome back to Senior Rock Radio. Thank you for joining us today. You know, these dreary days that we're having, they really brighten up when you think about spring flowers, you know. You'll feel spring at Sarah's Garden and Nursery in Brockport. And this weekend, I have to tell you, you can get a jump on their new shipment of 2026 on trend, so different and really beautiful garden statuary pieces. They are cement and they are beautiful. Up your garden game and be first to pick from these brand new, just arrived to concrete bird baths, urns, and creations, not creations, creatures galore. And only today and tomorrow, I'm going to tell you a little secret, mention Seniors Rock Radio, and you'll get 20% off these new concrete garden statuary pieces. They are stunning. Don't forget to go out there and visit Sarah's. In the fall, it's just what you need to think about spring. Sarah's Garden and Nursery, 63745, right on East Avenue in Brockport, New York. Another thing I want to mention is don't forget about Hannah Z. They are open now in Rochester and they're the newest social adult day program where every day is filled with friendship, music, and creativity. They really are different folks. You just have to check it out. You can do all kinds of different things or just relax and enjoy yourself. They have home style meals. a beauty salon, and they truly feel like a home away from home. That is what social adult day program should be, and that is what Hannah Z is. So come and visit them. They're on Long Pond Road. They're going to have several new openings in the next month. I will tell you about those dates next week as well, and you can go and visit, take a little tour, and enjoy yourself there. So visit Hannah. Z.org. It's H-A-N-N-A-Z.org. And you'll see that fun never gets old at Hannah Z. Mike, good show today.

Great show. Yeah, I was really excited to have Jessica on. She didn't disappoint. Just great information. And, you know, as you said, Joanna, at the outset, it's, you know, topics that people are uncomfortable discussing, but we all deal with it. And it's just, it's a part of life. It's, yeah, so it's good, but it's hard to talk about. I get that. And it's interesting because it's like when you're younger, you know, it sounds cliche, but you feel like you're going to live forever. And you don't think about these things. Noah's looking at me like, what? But it's true. And you know what? As you get older and you start to experience these losses and you start saying things like, wow, we have another funeral to go to. It becomes something you need to address. You need to talk about it and it'll make it feel so much better and to share because everybody else is thinking about it too, right? I mean, it's nothing that you're doing yourself. Exactly. It's on everybody's mind. But, you know, we're all going to get at least an hour older, right? Tonight you set our clocks back an hour. Oh, gosh, I forgot about that. Thank you for bringing that up. I wanted to remind. I'm sure there's going to be lots of reminders throughout the day, but folks, you don't want to show up an hour early tomorrow morning. So remember to set your clocks back. But you'll certainly be on time for the Bills and Chiefs game. Big game tomorrow, Joanna. I am looking forward to that. And, you know, I'm not a huge football fan, but I've been getting caught up in the fray, if you will. And I am going to have a big day tomorrow because I'm going to OFC creations for their 1.30 show, and that's Josie Waverly. And she is doing a tribute to Patsy Klein, one of my favorite 60s singers. And she had a tragic ending. But, boy, did she leave a legacy with some songs like Crazy and, you know, walking after midnight? And I can't even think of them. There's several, but I'm looking forward to that. And then I will whisk home very fast so we can see the game too. There you go. Hey, did you get any trick-or-treaters last night? We don't get them because we're in like a townhome community. Gotcha. We had our neighbors came over. Will and Ila and June came over. They were a shark and a witch. and skeletons so that was fun but that's you know where we live it's it's pretty remote so yeah don't get a ton of people well that's classic i love the outfits or the costumes that they had on and i saw some very funny ones my friend rachel and her husband scott i couldn't stop laughing they made my day or maybe even my week when they saw me their pictures last night. I can't tell you what they were, but it was really funny. So there is some, so there's a lot of joy in some of these crazy holidays that we do and it makes you smile and that's what's important. And I think that, I think you're smiling right now. Absolutely. Hey, everybody, have a great week. Go bills. Be well and be kind.

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